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How
did I know my partner had that potential?
You knew because when you first fell in love, during the Romantic Stage of your
relationship, they gave it to you! They gave you what you needed and they began
the healing process. They also expressed those qualities in yourself that you
had to disown or deny in order to be in your family or culture. However, once
Romantic Love wore off, you began to hate those same qualities in your partner!
In reaction, they became least capable of giving you what you need the most! And
so did YOU!
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What
does this all mean?
What this means is that you will continue to find partners who are either very
similar to the ones you have always found, or who appear to be the extreme
opposite. This is not to say that they will have the positive quality your
previous partner lacked! It means the quality that they possess will be the
opposite side of the same coin or, in other words, the opposite negative
quality. For example, if you married a "stingy" or "tightwad" type, your next
partner may be the extreme opposite, perhaps spending too much money.
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How do
I know if I am with my Imago match?
Chances are, if you fell in love and then fell out of love, and have stayed
together for any significant length of time, you are to some degree an Imago
Match for each other. The more intense your relationship, the more of an Imago
match you probably are. This person will help you stretch and grow into your
full potential!
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Is
there anyway around this?
The only way around this is to never be in a relationship! While there are a few
recluses in the world, you probably won't go to that extreme. The drive to be in
relationship is too strong. So until those wounds are healed and you reclaim
those disowned and denied parts, you will continue to attract and be attracted
to those same types of partners! That is, at least, until YOU stretch and grow
into your full potential!
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OK! I
am ready to find out who my Imago Match is!
Click here to go to the form that will help you identify your Imago
Match. If you still doubt the above,
click here anyway to prove it to yourself.
The form will open in a new window. Just close the window when finished
and you will be directed back to this page.
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The "Getting the Love You Want" Workshop for Couples
will help you to learn how to live with your Imago Match
in a Safe, Intimate, and Passionate Relationship!
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