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Unsolvable vs. Solvable
Problems
In a relationship there are
both Solvable Problems and
Unsolvable Problems.
Problems can remain unsolved
for years when the skills
and information needed to
effectively solve Solvable
Problems are not present,
resulting in unhappiness and
resentment.
Every couple also has
Unsolvable Problems.
Unsolvable Problems can be
managed so as not to tear at
the foundation of the
relationship. Unsolved and
unsolvable problems often
result in failed
relationships, and can
be prevented or overcome
with Relationship Coaching.
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When
should you begin
Relationship Coaching?
Relationship coaching for
couples is effective both
before and after making a
commitment:
Pre-Commitment Coaching
is for couples who are
considering making a lasting
commitment to their
relationship.
Pre-Commitment Coaching
activities may include:
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Achieving clarity about each partners'
vision, goals, and values |
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Developing mutual understanding and
acceptance of differences in personality and gender |
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Getting a reality check; each partner
being accountable to their identified requirements and needs |
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Developing strategies for testing and
decision-making |
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Addressing emotional and compatibility
issues |